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One way to get to know a person you've just met is to ask them to tell you about their favorite friends. It's said that a person essentially becomes an aggregate of the five people with whom they spend the most time.

There's another telling question to ask a stranger. It's all about a book.

1) Is there one book that you have re-read and will read again (and again)?
2) What is the most recent book that you've read and what stands out to you most?
3) What is the title of a book you recommend most often to friends?
4) What was the last book you read that made you so sad when it came to the end? (Because you wanted to keep on reading, not because the ending was sad!).

If the person you are just getting to know has never re-read a book, can't remember what stood out from the last book they read, doesn't recommend books to friends and has never felt sad to stop reading an excellent book...

I suggest that you stop conversing with them. And, perhaps, run. Kidding (not kidding). Perhaps you might consider striking up a conversation with someone else that you might want to get to know. AND start THAT conversation off by recommending a book you've recently read...

Friday, January 15, 2010


PROMISES TO MYSELF • Promise #40 • AUTHENTICALLY AMUSED • January 15, 2010 • I promise to intensely embrace all of my passionate life and take nothing too seriously. • “It’s of such consequence that I must laugh.” • TODAY – See the irony peppered in the consequences of the world; Laugh while doing all I can; Consider levity the leverage in all my actions.

“I KNOW it’s serious, that’s why I’m laughing.”mary anne radmacher

“There are some things so serious you have to laugh at them.” Niels Bohr

“You don’t stop laughing because you grow old. You grow old because you stop laughing.” Michael Pritchard

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